BEING IN THE FRIENDZONE- How To know You're in it

The most dreaded zone No one in fact wants to be in.

When you're in love with someone and he/she places you there...it's crazy and your friends would definitely laugh at you.

Well, most times, it's inevitable-Lol. Especially towards guys. I'm sure once or twice you've found yourself in that situation.

You know, it's not possible for us, the female folk to date every guy we come across.

Sometimes, we just like you too much and we know saying No and standing by it will chase you, so in order for us to not totally push you away, we push you slowly to that zone where you are neither a boyfriend nor an ordinary friend, so at least we can see you and enjoy your company..stuff happen..don't sue me!

Anyways, this doesn't just happen to guys...girls sometimes find themselves in such situation..and it's annoying especially when they are crushing on a particular guy.

Well, I had little chats with people and I discovered crazy signs girls leave that just shows you're either there or you are heading to that part.

So when you find yourself in such situation, run for your life before it's too late, or your chances of ever being her boyfriend will be ruined forever!

*You become more of a bestie to her...

*You become her trusted confidant. She's able to tell you just about anything. She doesn't hide anything at all from you..She says everything Including the number of guys that have asked her out within a certain period of time.

*You get the opportunity to sleep in her room- you'll stay in her room and wait till she's out of the bathroom, she's undressing..you see her bare legs but too bad, you can't touch!!!!!*tongue

out*

*She'll seek your advice alot..especially on her dealings with the guys asking her out. 

*She'll start dating someone and still seek your advice.

*one guy told me a girl he was crushing on, sends him different nude pics, asking him to choose the best one she can send to her boyfriend. LOL!!!! now that's the height of
friendzoning..he is out of it now, but it took a miracle for him to realize his position in her life.

*She says she loves you pretty often but adds later on, the phrase-'i do, but more like a brother' or 'I see you like a big brother..someone I can rely on' (it's not a bad thing entirely oo)

*yeah and more importantly, she never ever introduces you as anything more than 'just a friend'. Yeah if she's a Little bit nice, you'll be introduced as 'my sweetheart or my sugarbunny
or just one of those names girls invent.You never go beyond pecking her...on her cheeks...nothing else happens. She would never 

see you as anything else.

# unless you've both decided to graduate to 'friendswithbenefitswithnostringsattached' which is a decision, y'all have to make.

In conclusion, being in a friendzone is cool o..at least, you'll be the first to know whatever he/she is doing, who they are dating and stuff like that.

If you know deep down, you don't want to loose the girl/guy, then stick to what you're being offered. You'll become her bestie for life..

But if you can't cope(too much love), then, distant yourself so you don't get hurt.

But in the mean time, you can console yourself with D'Prince's song- 'Bestie'..

Ok??

Love y'all..

Xoxo