RELATIONSHIP-Am I in it For The Right Reasons?

Hello sweethearts,

This very post is one that i've been wanting to do for a while now..Some of us are in relationships but don't even know why we are in one or what exactly it is,we are actually benefiting from them-now don't get me wrong when I say benefiting- i don't mean material things.

      I know most times when you ask a girl,why are you in love with Mr.M and she replies with a "I don't really know,i just love him. There's no reason,maybe when I have a reason,the love won't be there anymore". If you're Mr. M and you hear this,you'll be very happy. It's true yes,that's like the best answer,But don't be fooled.

First of all,I believe deep down,your bf/gf has to have a reason behind choosing you or accepting you. It may be that you've got the best smile or you're rich/comfortable enough(i.e you've got the cash to spend) or your good looks..i mean that can even be the main reason.you know at least, he/she will have someone to show around..

It could also be intelligence(maybe someone that can help out in assignments, tests,etc) or the fact that the guy or girl is quite popular..

Another reason could be that you're God fearing or you've got a great heart or good character..or he/she is comfortable in your company, maybe you're capable of making each other smile..plus many other reasons...

Now the thing is the length or duration of your relationship mostly depends on the reason you first got interested in each other..Honestly speaking, now if that reason isn't strong enough,it'll fade with time and you'd end up making a big mistake dating him/her..

The best thing to do is to start digging,asking questions and getting answers..

Remember,it's never too late to start doing that..

Make the right decision today and stop wasting your time dating the wrong person..

Cheers..hugsnkisses..