INDECENT DRESSING: AN ANNOYING SOCIETAL PROBLEM..MESSAGE FROM "NAIDA"


GIRL:
I like putting on trousers irrespective of people's opinion....
I can braid/fix my hair and it'll be so long that it can even reach my buttocks and there's nothing wrong with that.
What I wear doesn't matter at all-bump short, low waist, and the likes.
Wearing leggings, with short top doesn't matter too especially as I know they are clothes..and I have to wear what I have..besides it's all about the intention..

BOY:
A far as I'm concerned, there's nothing wrong with putting my trousers below my waist(sagging).
There's also nothing wrong with wearing skin tight trousers, it's what is en vogue..
Drawing tattoos is in the thing.. people are doing it, why shouldn't I??

All these are statements we make everyday.. Some of them we say with a very clean heart..

Some people wear stuff because truly that's what they have, while others say they are wearing whatever not to please anybody but because they look good in it.

Not trying to sound too spiritual here but remember that sometimes what you wear can lead someone to commit sin, and you wouldn't know it.
I remember one time, I saw a guy wearing a very tight trouser. All i could see when my eyes mistakenly went down, was his bulge..It was screaming that it wanted out! I couldn't help but look..That's just a case, well, there are many others..
I may be guilty of some of the things here but I got to realize it's actually true, you may unintentionally get someone turned on.We are human beings..

 You can put on a low cut singlet and your boobs are showing, you don't mean to distract anyone but somehow, the distraction must definitely occur...

You hear of rape and sexual harassment(hey i'm not justifying the act of those barbarians/wicked people that engage in this), but my point is, indecent dressing leads to these vices..So why shouldn't we try and avoid these things that can cause them..


In summary, moderation is the key...it always has.. In everything you do..Do what is right...

##This message is from the National Association of Indecent Dressing Affectees (NAIDA).. ##LOL

Also, for those guys and girls that told me what they've gone through as regards to this topic, I believe I have done my own part..Now, please do spread the word..
Thanks..
Hugs and.......kisses (mmuah!!)

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