DILEMMA (Guest Post 1)

From a sister from another mother.....

                   I'm in love with him..my boyfriend of some months..From the depth of my heart..I mean I really do. We've been through a lot together..He cherishes me, somehow I'll say more than i even do to myself..Understands me and has taken up the position of a best friend, big brother, boyfriend, 'hugest fan and supporter', and everything you can think of..... 
I started attending piano lessons during the hols, something to keep me busy. Wanted to perfect my skills so i could play in in a concert happening soon..
 Then, I met this dude.. Guy two..He's taking violin and guitar lessons at the same school.He's very beautiful. I'm not going to say handsome because it doesn't describe what i have in mind.... and honestly,that's like the best adjective to describe him. Yes he's soo cute... but being who I am, I act like I don't notice him. Reason is my pride. Didn't want to look cheap.. another is my boyfriend.. thoughts of him would always come into my mind....

 Now, boy two started noticing me o..hmm without much effort on my part...and the fact is, the more i keep pushing him away and acting like he didn't exist, the more he keeps coming. Some weeks ago, he admitted that what i do-my stubbornness and everything turns him on..imagine!
Full blown flirting..i wasn't finding it funny at all. My guy still very much on my mind.
But as the day goes by, i realize what guy two is doing is getting to me..the words, his actions, the care, the seductive stare..everything..
I told him i already have someone.. He just laughed and said that wasn't a problem for him....The worst happened he invited me to hang with him sometime and i accepted...Don't know how i got myself entangled in this messs.
My head is full finally...Guilt is one huge problem i'm facing..
I'm letting myself get attracted  and flirt with someone else other than the love of my life..and i can't help it oo.It's eating me up and i sincerely need solution to this matter please..If you have anything to say other than "leave the piano lesson" please share with us....Will be waiting..thanks!

 P.S: I can't leave the piano lesson, because i paid a huge sum of money for it.. .lol

Comments

  1. Anonymous3 December 2015 at 02:59

    June Jacobs, to share and get advice in cases like this: i think this should move to the main page.
    For this young lady, would you fall for anyone that's charming every time you find yourself in a new environment?

    You don't have to leave your piano classes BUT JUST DON'T ACT ON YOUR EMOTIONS; DON'T LET IT LEAD YOU, RATHER LEAD IT TOWARDS WHO YOU LOVE, how you fill about this new guy, give it a little more time, the emotions will ware out. It's just like pouring petrol on a little fire, it will burn but will stop burning in a short time and if you are a christian, pray about it. You'll become good friends with this guy with no....you can trust this method....

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