LADIES KNOW YOUR WORTH!! DON'T LET HIM TAKE YOU FOR GRANTED




HI EVERYONE!!!

 Ladies please don't ever make this mistake..
Don't allow any man take you for granted.. especially when you are not even married to him yet.
If you are dating any guy and you show him signs that you are head over heels in love with him, and maybe cannot do without him, if he's not mature enough he'd start taking you for granted..Yes it is good to give your relationship everything you've got to make it work but please don't lay yourself at the mercy of this creature-man.
When you act like you can't be happy on your own,you can't make decisions on your own,you're always calling and when he doesn't call, you'd start nagging.... that's how it starts, he begins to feel like the boss..and starts thinking your every action is for him and him alone, then you are FINISHED!

A girl would put all her mind in her so-called guy, he'd be in charge of her happiness that when he quarrels with her, her day is ruined and at the end she'd see herself crying and asking for forgiveness..(yes, this should be done sometimes, you know, apologise especially when you are at fault...but if you apologise every time even when he is at fault because you want 'peace to reign', you are telling him straight up that YOU DON'T KNOW YOUR WORTH!)

  I hear guys say awful things about girls today and they say they knew their relationships were heading for the rocks when their girlfriends started saying things like 'Bae, i'm scared of
loosing you'...they became very negative and insecure...one said,"Onyi used to be strong willed and had this very free nature but now, she's always feeling insecure.. always thinking I'm with some girl, always nagging..always begging me...she's changed for real. i can't believe I'd one day avoid her calls..it's like she's someone else"

 Now, this is how it starts, and before you know it, they would break up and the girl will be
miserable..

Statistics show that girls that give guys tough time during the chyking/wooing period are much highly valued by the guys when they are finally into the relationship... So if that is the case, why don't you remain strong willed till the very end...We can be soft-yes- but you don't have to show it all the time lest you lose your worth!

Ladies, please and please read this carefully...
  • Don't make your boyfriend/fiancĂ© see or know most stuff about your life-family background at all..especially if you're not from a well to do family,or your family has a special secret, he may use it against you later.. some guys can be ruthless, remember you aren't married yet!

  • Secrets are meant to be secrets..if that 'secret' won't cost you your relationship, and it's important that you shouldn't tell everyone, then please keep it to yourself! telling him doesn't make both of you greatest pals..he may likely use it against you later on and start acting funny..

  • Don't allow a  guy you're dating make you chase your other friends especially male friends...it could be fatal..when he starts acting up, he'd do so with pride knowing you don't have any other place to be..and you'd come running back to him

  • please look for other activities you love, that would take your time...keep you busy.. so you won't be available all the time.. Do this because once he notices that you are always available, he can start acting up..He'd do things to annoy you and he knows no matter what, when he comes to apologise, you'd be there with open arms to accept him..that's you loving him with all your might!

  • Confessing how much you love him is great-yes, but please do mind what you say...don't make a promise you can't keep..don't say too much.it's registering somewhere in his brain and when he'll use it against you,you'd be shocked!

  • Do not show him how angry you are at him all the time..when he doesn't show up on your planned date, when you see him with other girls(some girls go as far as going to warn or fight the girls they see their guy with),when he doesn't pick your call and things like that..sometimes you can just ignore some of his actions..nagging all the time won't help. it would only boost his ego and make him happy because he knows you want him badly.. He may start misbehaving thereafter..

  • Having sex with a guy you're dating, soon after the relationship kicks off makes most of them start misbehaving...The best thing to do is to abstain totally, till you're married or make sure he's mature enough to handle such intimacy without seeing you as cheap before you indulge in it.
Love with caution!! so you won't be a victim of heartbreak...Girls are very emotional beings and guys sometimes use it to their own advantage, so beware of your actions!!

TO GUYS..Never take a good woman that loves you for granted, because there are one million other guys out there that will appreciate her and give her all the love she deserves..

Love you all as you enjoy your wonderful relationships!!

*this post was inspired by 'hewhomustnotbementioned'..LoL....cheers!!hugs and...mmuah!!.... am outta here!!

Comments

  1. Sab28 November 2015 at 23:31

    Wonderful piece and i agree with you my dear, but with some important exceptions
    1) We chase women initially because it is necessary just to get you guys to be with us. but after we caught up with you guys, we expect you to stop running.
    2) We don't expect you to leave you male friends when you are with us, we only expect and want you to do things more transparently with them. the rule is that "justice must not only be done, but must be seem to have been done". Catch you later Jully with other tips.

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    1. Junes29 November 2015 at 23:31

      Thanks Sab for your comment..
      I'd like to point out a few things..one is this, the 'running' does end as soon as the girl agrees to be in a relationship..so guys shouldn't misuse that.
      Secondly, most guys make their gfs stop every other association with the friends they had before they came into the picture..especially the male friends..(this is done by insecure,immature guys anyways) but that's just the truth. I have heard/seen cases of such..

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  2. Unknown30 November 2015 at 10:26

    Very well said Br.Sab., but I would suppose we refrain 4rm d use d word "Chase" to d use of "Seek". Dis Y; we chase 'Things of lesser value, Objects and after Wants". We SEEK 'Needs'. Women are NOT "Object or Things or Wants; They are Humans with Dignity, just as We (men) Are. So we SEEK them, becos we Need them as companions and as a Helper, We Need there Love.
    You might argue dat we SEEK wats lost. Yes by d very nature of our creation we're all lost 4rm each. Our creator willed dat they be made from Our Ribs (as Holy Scripture tell us), by dis we (men) & they (women) hav d obligations to Seek,and Find each oda becos we are born into defferent families.
    Speaking further,(4give me Br. am entitled to my opinion, so as u are, And we also nid dis to learn 4rm each oda) on Justice and expecting dem nt to be afraid after we must hav caught dem on d run by 'chasing' as u said; Well u cannot stop a river 4rm flowing wen u have made good channel 4 d water. So if we chase into dem fear, well don't expect solitude & trust 4rm dem. And Justice z of the Both, nt of one party. So as we want her to restrict her freedom 4rm among her peers especially oda guys. We must also do d same 4rm among oda ladies.
    And to U burifuly made Ladies out dere, I must add to wat Julie has said dat: Though Our creator has made U of d weaker Sex, He has not Made U too weak dat U do nt Know wat U Need 4rm a Man and Stand by it. "Woman uphold your Dignity "
    Abeg ooh guys in d hood make una no vex sey I dey defend our Ladies, just airing my views so we can all Learn to Love, Cherish and appreciate them More Beta, cos I believe in True and buriful Relationships.
    Smile.... tanx Broo. & Julie...

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  3. Anonymous21 December 2015 at 08:56

    very well said bt am in love with a girl dat am nt sure she loves me the way i love advise me on that

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  4. Junes21 December 2015 at 23:13

    Dear, are you in a relationship with her? If yes, then give it more time..she'll tell you soon. Also,you have to learn to read from her actions..they will say everything..but just keep doing your own part. In time, you'll know if she does..

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  5. Junes21 December 2015 at 23:27

    Dear, are you in a relationship with her? If yes, then give it more time..she'll tell you soon. Also,you have to learn to read from her actions..they will say everything..but just keep doing your own part. In time, you'll know if she does..

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